- Born: 1791, Kettlebaston, Suffolk
- Christened: 11 Sep 1791, Kettlebaston, Suffolk
- Marriage (1): Unknown
- Marriage (2): Robert Carlo on 1 Dec 1829 in Bury St Edmunds - St Mary
- Died: 1860, Hadleigh aged 69
- Buried: 9 Feb 1860, Hadleigh
Mary Wilding / Wilden has three children according to the Cosford database. Then a Robert Wilden, then a marriage to Robert Carlo and two more children,
The 1841 census shows Mary Carlo who is married to Robert Carlow, aged 51 whilst he is 33. Robert Wilden is shown as being Robert Carlo.
Mary is the sister of William, whose two sons marry two of the Death girls, whilst her son Robert Wilden / Carlo married the other Death girl. So we are referring to two brothers and a cousin marrying three sisters. This make logical sense.
In 1851, she is living with her husband Robert Carlow.
There is no spouse / husband for Mary prior to marrying Robert Carlo.
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Mary next married Robert Carlo, son of William Carlo and Martha Maria Vince, on 1 Dec 1829 in Bury St Edmunds - St Mary. (Robert Carlo was born about 1810 in Kettlebaston, Suffolk, christened on 25 Jul 1819 in Kettlebaston, Suffolk, died in 1851 in Kettlebaston, Suffolk and was buried on 28 Aug 1851 in Kettlebaston, Suffolk.)