In 1891 she is living with her family in Chelmsford, and by 1901 is still single, aged 23 and a domestic servant in Lambeth, at 22 Cold Harbour Lane. Also in 1901, she pops up at a marriage in Shenfield as the witness to John Thomas Wilding. This is dated 5 December 1901. There is a wedding of a Kathleen Wilding, in Ipswich in 1901, maybe her ??